Fearing What You Don’t Understand — And Why It Doesn’t Have to Be That Way

There’s a common phrase I hear from people all the time:

“I’m just not good with technology.”

It usually comes with a nervous laugh or a little shrug, but behind it is something real — a sense of frustration, maybe even a little shame, that they’ve somehow fallen behind or missed the boat.

But here’s the truth: you’re not bad with tech. You’ve just never had anyone explain it to you in a way that makes sense — in a calm, human, no-rush kind of way.

And if you’ve ever felt anxious about clicking the wrong button or messing something up on your iPhone, iPad, or Mac… I want you to know you’re not alone.

We Fear What We Don’t Understand

It’s completely natural. Whether it’s a new app, a confusing notification, or just that mysterious “Settings” icon — not knowing how something works can make us feel tense, even a little embarrassed.

But that fear? It fades the moment you understand what you’re looking at. The moment someone shows you, step-by-step, in plain language, what’s happening and how to use it.

That’s why I do what I do at Michael Coury Tech — because no one should feel stressed or left out simply because no one took the time to explain something clearly.

Technology Is Meant to Help You — Not Scare You

You shouldn’t have to feel like you’re constantly “catching up” with your devices. In fact, most of the powerful tools built into your iPhone or Mac are there to simplify your life — not complicate it.

The key is support. Real, patient, one-on-one help. Not techy jargon. Not YouTube rabbit holes. Just someone who understands how to meet you where you are, and walk with you at your pace.

You’re Not Behind — You’re Just Getting Started

If you’re over 55 and feel like technology moved too fast — take a breath. You’re not too late, and you’re definitely not alone. The most important thing is not knowing everything — it’s being willing to stay curious.

Every time you open yourself up to learning something new, you’re building confidence — not just with tech, but with life. That mindset? That’s what keeps you sharp, connected, and in control.

So next time you feel that hesitation, that fear of the unknown — stop and remind yourself: “I’ve learned a lot in my life. I can learn this too.”

And if you ever want help — with patience, a smile, and no stress — I’m here.